When Michael Franti -- a musician, filmmaker and activist -- gets into an argument with his wife, they fall back on one phrase: Do you want to be right, or do you want to be close? So many arguments are just about proving that my opinion or what I did or what I said was OK. And that what she did or said wasnt OK, Franti said. Thats what I signed up for and thats what you signed up for. Franti and Spearhead have a new album called Watching The World Go by With You.Rosen wants to hear from you next. The Best Advice Show is a product of Graham Media Group.